"Love doesn't have to be complicated." ~@RoofEOoh
He is absolutely right! Love does not have to be complicated. In fact it shouldn't be! Love should be the easiest and most freeing thing you experience in your life. At least that's how I feel about my Daddy. Loving Him has been the easiest thing that I've ever done. It just comes so natural. It isn't forced. Its as simple as breathing. Loving Him also set me free. It allowed me to be myself. It allowed me to love someone deserving of the type of love that I give. I no longer had to put restrictions on my love.
"Relationships are hard work. IDK any "happy" couple that ain't working everyday to make sure they stay happy." ~@Smooth_Orator
He too is also right. Relationships do require work. Love should be easy, but relationships aren't always such, especially D/s relationships. When you're with the right person they are going to push you to be a better person, to do better, to give them your best. This requires work, and for me hard work to get my shit together. I appreciate my Daddy because He makes me want to give him my best, to be the best sub that I can possibly be for Him. Being with Him makes the work worth it, even when its not easy. His happiness is important to me, our happiness is important to me. As a submissive it is my natural instinct to serve. Whatever I do, I want it to be pleasing to my Daddy, and I want it to make Him happy. As His submissive that would make me happy, so I am willing to do the necessary work required for both of our happiness.
"A Daddy would never ask His little to put Him before her career, or family just to satisfy their own pleasure, yet will encourage independence in growth." ~from The Daddy-Dominant's Creed
Surprisingly though, the only work my Daddy requires is for me to work on myself. My Daddy wants me to be better and to do better, but He wants me to do those things for me and for my family. I struggled with this for a while because I thought that He was trying to push me away or exclude Himself from my life. But in all reality He was just being the great Daddy that He is. He wasn't saying that He was abandoning me, but He was encouraging me to work on me for me. He was encouraging and supporting, my growth. He knew that by focusing on myself and bettering myself for me that ultimately I would be better for Him. That doing it for me would have a wider and longer-lasting effect than just doing it for Him. I love that my Daddy encourages and demands individuality. He doesn't want me to be so caught up in Him that I lose myself. He doesn't want me to change who I am for Him, but He encourages and supports my growth as a person so that I can be my authentic me. My Daddy freed me so that I could be me, and in turn submit my free self to Him. That is all that He's ever wanted, all that He's ever asked for...for me to be completely myself with Him.
I am completely and irrevocably in love with my Daddy. That love makes even the most difficult times in our relationship worth it. His form of Dominance, while not what I expected or imagined, is exactly everything that EYE want and need in my life. Which leaves me with this last quote...
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