Thursday, May 7, 2015

And Then There Were Three

So....I FINALLY  have a girlfriend! I get all warm and fuzzy everytime I think about it. Its been a long time coming, but I have been dilligent and patient in my search. I'm happy that I waited too because I really think that I made the best decision for me and for Daddy. I've known her for almost 10 years. I've always had a girl crush on her but I've never really said anything to her. I would flirt with her own an off but it was really innocent. We lost contact with each other for a couple of years and found each other again on twitter. It was great catching up with her and reliving all of the fun we used to have back in the day. I first approached her to have a threesome with Daddy and I. Its something that he's been wanting to do for a while and I really wanted to make it happen for him. I had originally been looking for a female partner to join in and not really looking for a girlfriend for myself. When I linked back up with my #her I realized that she would be perfect. When I talked to her about it she was completely down to join lol. She's both bisexual and poly like myself. She currently is in another relationship with a guy who knows and supports her being poly.

In talking with her and Daddy about this threesome I really started to fall for her. Reading her tweets and blog posts only heightened my feelings. Did I mention that she is FAHN?!?!? When I was going through a rough patch with Daddy it was easy for me to talk to her and she understood where I was coming from and what I was feeling. She also gave me some great advice on how to deal with what I was going through. She is experienced in ways that I am not, and Daddy and I hope to learn a lot from her as well as to teach her a lot that she would like to learn from us and our dynamic. Daddy really likes her too (which is a big plus). When I mentioned jokingly about making her my girlfriend he was all for it and encouraged it. His support really meant a lot to me. I don't think that I would have entered into a relationship with her without it.

So, I haven't really come out to many people about being bi or poly. I've only told one close friend about #her, and she was immedietly jealous because she has/had a crush on me. She was actually my first choice for the threesome, but she was scared because she's never been with a woman. My friend was actually kinda upset with me when I told her becauase she felt like I should have waited on her. I feel like I made the best decision for me though, and I'm happy with it. I can't wait to see what the future holds for the three of us. Who know she may even become my sub sister. 

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